4 Wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He’s very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant’s confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant’s 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, “Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I’ll be alone. How lonely I’ll be!”

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, “I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No way!” replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.

The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant’s heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, “I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No!” replied the 3rd wife. “Life is so good over here! I’m going to remarry when you die!” The merchant’s heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, “I always turned to you for help and you’ve always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?” “I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!” replied the 2nd wife. “At the very most, I can only send you to your grave.” The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : “I’ll leave with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.” The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, “I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !”

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it’ll leave us when we die.

b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we’re alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

Guess what? It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it’s a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we’re on our deathbed to lament.”




6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. brath
    Aug 21, 2007 @ 16:43:11

    tama ka diyan ms.Banana hindi natin madadala lahat ng meron tayo ngayon kapag namatay na tayo. how sad…


    Medyo na tats ako jan eh. At una kong naalala shemps sarili ko. Pangalawa si Malu lol. Sayang yung 10 kgs make up niya. Pero kahit patay na yang piggy na yan i’m sure babaunin pa rin niya ang mga make up niya sa hukay niya dahil conscious yan kung ano maging itsura niya sa loob ng ataul.


  2. jojie
    Aug 22, 2007 @ 04:02:23

    inspiring. 😀

    aawww! di va? so medyo budgeted na pera natin sa mga achuchuchu, basta have FAITH in Him 😀


  3. Banana
    Aug 22, 2007 @ 05:11:13

    mga sis, brath and jojie, iwan niyo naman mga ym addy niyo 😀 chika tayo minsan bilis tsaka mag webcam tayong three weee and saya 😆


  4. jojie
    Aug 22, 2007 @ 06:02:19

    mga sis, brath and jojie, iwan niyo naman mga ym addy niyo 😀 chika tayo minsan bilis tsaka mag webcam tayong three weee and saya 😆
    ay type ko yan! 😀 😀 ym id ko–> jojitah

    okee tenks sis! mamaya ha 😆


  5. Ms. Red
    Aug 22, 2007 @ 07:32:52

    magandang lesson yan para sa mga guys na babaero, hehehe.. 😀

    uu lols


  6. jojie
    Aug 23, 2007 @ 04:10:51

    ohmygash! sister! sensiya hindi ko nabasa ang reply mo/ anong oras ka ba nag-online? abangan na lang kita… 😀


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